For people having trouble joining the discord server

Go to your Patreon settings

Click on "Connected Apps".

Select "Discord" and follow the instructions to connect your accounts.

You might need to log into your Discord account during the connection process.Select "Discord" and follow the instructions to connect your accounts.

As soon as you connect you discord account,you should be added to the server. You may need to refresh your page or wait a little bit before you're added.